GajCo & Princess Sarah Compare Notes

The Following are excerts from a ladder related msn conversation. Shouts go out to www.princesssarah.ca - who mind you is single guys ;)

GajCo: yo man... they are trying to jump the ladder
Sars: yes and i dont know what to do that is the worst situation like if they are on the other ladder but low down, its much easier bc u arent friends...no issue u just never email/call back or just tell them flat out u arent interested like do i say thanks? what do i say? that is so nice? WTF
GajCo: see the problem is.... guys think the jump from the friends ladder to the good ladder is an easy one. But it is NOT! Its a deadly one - but they are too dumb to realize & hope that they can do it!
Sars: there is no jumping in general...its just that i think of them as separate. oh man. do they really think that?! its WAY better to be the new mysterious guy. than to be a good/nice/trustworthy friend then switch or i mean then try to switch. like u dont think twice about taking the chance with new mysterious guy, but its risky with someone who you dont want to hate you tomorrrow - girls actually care about not ruining a friendship.
GajCo: yes, very true. Mysterious guy is key!
Sars: i just noticed something: sometimes guys who are friends who decide they like me like try to get pissed off at me or get me to get mad at them. like they want the abyss. being the new guy is so key like the guy who came out of nowhere... because you arent on the friends list and even if she doesnt realize she wants u at first...she may suddenly realize and then want you bad. And if comes to that point..u can do no wrong...and that is why u see girls with guys that are no good...bc at that point she wants that guy
Sars: the part i hate is if u are at the top of someones ladder, u give them the ok then you get dropped! which is why i am NEVER showing interest in the future
GajCo: yeah, because we take it for granted, if a girl really wants us... we're like aww whatever i could have her if i wanted so i'll just keep my options open.
Sars: ya true. hahah whatever if a guy really wants a girl he will pursue her but my issue is that i will be pursued..not show interest and then once i do the GUY gets too serious and like analyzes everything and shit like who gets serious from teh start?!
GajCo: retards :D - sometimes once the girl gets interested we get scared! :(
GajCo: like after the chase is done & we are successful, we are like "omg what have we done??" and then back off
Sars: the weirdest thing is when its all in the guys head bc the girl doesnt think it is serious at all like she is just seeing how it goes or she likes him but is giving him a chance as a boyfriend...like not thinking longterm omg but u are totally right
GajCo: yeah - i think the key is stay busy with other stuff, never give the official green light, maybe like be like "we'll see how it goes", try to prolong the chase, yet reward it with treats along the way - like a dog :D lol
Sars: hahahahah! Ya, good idea
Sars: yo this isnt from this site but is it true that the girl should never make teh first move? personally i think the girl shouldnt be making any moves i.e. pursuing
GajCo: yes very true. although, if done correctly it can be extremely attractive, like the whole mysterious girl/guy approach. but if it's not spontaneous & instantaneous, ie. someone you know, a mutual friend, whatever... then it's a no-go on the 1st move