Getting to Know Someone

(extracted from personal thoughts)
I think you can only truly know a person inside out by not interfering with them! It's like Quantum Mechanics: A quantum system is in a given state; however, the second you attempt to measure that state, you have automatically changed it's state!

Real Life: Every person is unique & well defined; however, if you engage in a relationship that person automatically changes to make themselves more appealing to you! So you can never determine who they are by getting involved or even remotely interested!!